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Feeling you need to prove yourself to others is an issue that will definitely hold you back when you’re learning how to become good with women. When you started, you were probably humble (well, you have to be to admit that you need help with women) and you would have gained some success… and then you will start getting less and less results. Why is this?

It isn’t like your skills suddenly disappeared. It’s not like you’ve changed: you are still you. But your expectations have changed. Your criteria for fulfilling the needs of your ego have changed. When you started out, you were probably thinking, “Yeah, I might not be that great with women so I’ll try this stuff out”. So you try it out and get some success… then now you’re thinking, “Yep, I’m good with women. Nothing can stop me now”. That’s where things start to go bad. You won’t open sets because your EGO says you’re good with women and it KNOWS if you try to approach women and they “reject” you (in reality, NO woman that you only just met can EVER reject you), it pimp slaps your ego and tells it the truth: that you might not be as good as you think you are.

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Hey Man,

Hope you enjoyed the first post on getting that special girl, and if there’s anything more you’d like to learn send me an email or post a comment on this blog and I’ll try and answer it on here for ya.

The issue of nervousness and anxiety talking to a stunning woman is a big problem, I know, I’ve been there before, yet there is a solution, and amazingly it can be learned in just a few minutes.

The first thing you must realize is that the problem is not that you don’t know what to say. I’m quite sure when you are with friends out and about you talk with them, you don’t sit there all nervous thinking things like “oh do they like me? Am I being cool enough? What do I say?” You simply say what you want to say and do what you like, and this is the first key to finding the right words when talking to the girl you like.

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There are 7 core traits that every women love in men, and unfortunately 99% of guys don’t know about ANY of them, if you do, we’ll done, you’re a superstar amongst mere mortals.

Applying just one or two of these golden rules will have you with the ability to attract any women you desire, yes even that one you’ve had your eye on for quite some time, they key here is actually doing them, not simply reading then going back to World of Warcraft.

So what do they want?

To Be Approached
Most guys have this weird mental talk inside their heads that tells them “oh she just wants to be left alone, she wouldn’t want to talk to me” Rubbish! All Women desperately want a cool fun guy to just come up to them and sweep them off their feet, and the more guys they talk to, the more chance they have of meeting this perfect guy? Make sense? Good, onto the next rule.

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Since starting LetsInspire I’ve noticed that there is a serious abundance of guys out there who have ‘this one girl’, the one amazing girl who eclipses all others in every sector of life and they *must* have. Because this is such a huge problem I’ve decided to dedicate create a full series to help all guys stuck in a similar rut.

If this is you, and you would really like a certain someone special to be in your life then listen up closely, I’ve got some good news and some bad news for you:

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First ever video! Wewt! Sure it’s not a hollywood production, but I thought video would be a much better way for you to learn and hopefully it helped me get the message across far better than just text.

If you have any questions or comments feel free to list them below or give me an email at solace@letsinspire.net, Don’t forget to subscribe on the right for more awesome free information and videos if you haven’t already, and enjoy!

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Are you feeling on top of the world right now? Feeling incredibly successful and enjoying life to the max? If the answer is no, I’ve got something quite shocking to tell you, success isn’t going to change that.

Its funny that often people equate success to being happy “oh if I had a threesome, then I’d be happy”, “If I could have 5 girls on the go, dating them all at once, then I’d be really happy”. It’s seen even more in the world of finance “all I need is another $5k a year, then I can afford anything I really want…”, once they get that pay rise, they want another, and another, it just never seems to fulfill them.

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Are you dating women in order to bring them more happiness and joy? Or mainly to bring yourself more happiness and joy? If it’s the latter, it’s going to be a tough uphill struggle. If perhaps its not for your own happiness and joy, but rather an attempt to satisfy your ego, then you’re setting off on the wrong path from the very start.

Many men learn how to get better with women in order to fill a black hole they feel inside themselves. Generally it’s an in-balance in other areas of their life, perhaps they don’t have as many friends as they would like, or they don’t get enough love and care from their parents. If you’re a guy like this, who feels incomplete at the moment, you’re going to need to plug this hole. Women desire a guy who’s life is complete without them, they want a guy who is stable, strong and does not need anything from them. If you ever feel you need something from a girl (whether that be sex, love and care, or more excitement), you’re not where you should be, for you won’t get very far if you need something from them. If you feel you want women in order to give them a better, more exciting life then you’re coming from the right location and going to go far.

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Your ego is both inspiring and full of deceit, on the surface it appears to be helping you, it gives you small boosts of gratification when you succeed and that helps keep you going, however on the flip side it is also one of the biggest hindrances you will face in life. You see your ego just wants you to be safe, to have fun and to be the best, however what it doesn’t realize is that failure can be a good thing. In fact, your ego hates failure, it loathes nothing more, and this is where most people go wrong in their career, health and relationships.

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Fear is a common culprit for most if not all of the problems we as men face with dealing with women. I know you and I both have fears over all the different aspects of pickup, from just walking up and saying those first few words, to getting a girls phone number, kissing a girl, having sex or even keeping a relationship alive and dealing with jealousy and attachment. At the root of most of these fears is what is known as a scarcity mentality, yet on the surface it doesn’t appear to be so.

I often hear guys say they can’t walk up and talk to a girl because they don’t know what to say. This is not true, for just walking up and simply saying hi to a girl and going from there is a great way to start a conversation. It’s the mindset that if they screw up with this girl there are very few others left to seduce which causes feelings of anxiety and a feeling of “I have to get this girl”. The simply truth is you really don’t need all these fancy opening lines and “pickup lines” in order to meet and attract women, you just have to realize a few simple truths about reality.

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I can see it now, you tried your hardest to make it work but she just seemed to get more and more distant, unfortunately you never saw it coming, that dreaded day when for no reason it all she decided to dump you. I understand how much it hurts, I’ve been there before and it’s never good, especially when you don’t believe you’ve done anything wrong. But let there not be despair, for you can win back her heart, although it’s not the way most people teach or understand, for often what you think will win her back only drives her further away.

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