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You’re talking to a girl. You want her to be attracted to you. I know! If I’m NICE to her and I show her that I’m a safe comfortable guy to be with, she will like me! Yes that’s logical. I’d like to be with a safe comfortable girl. I like it when people give me shit so I’ll give her shit. This just MAKES SENSE.

I’ll say things to her that MAKE SENSE to me. I’ll say things to her that I will make her think, ‘This guy is awesome, I want his babies. He buys me a lot of stuff and he really seems to CARE about me. He’s got SO MUCH going for him. He has a good job, a career path and I know he can support me… and the kids.’

If any of those above thoughts have run through your minds recently, you’re not in the right frame of mind. Remember what women are attracted to/value: she wants EMOTIONS. All the lines you say, all the body language you do (to a lesser extent, I believe body language is a huge part of this) will not work if you’re not aiming to affect the right things. All of those wont work if you’re not focusing on the right things.

What will most girls say when you ask them why they’re attracted to specific men?

It all basically goes like this, and you can test this too:

shift: Why do you like X?
Lady: He makes me feel x, y, z.

They’re not saying, “I like X because he has x, y, z and he is <job>, all things logical, etc”.

What’s the difference? EMOTION. Guys who make the women feel emotions make the women attracted to them. LOGIC does not attract girls. Guys will logic anything. Look at me even now. I’m using LOGIC to deduce that it’s EMOTION that makes the women attracted. Breaking it down is what we’re good at.

Emotion is what gets a girl attracted to you. Ask any girl why they like a particular guy. The answer will probably start with ‘Well he makes me feel…’ and if it doesn’t (she lists logical things ie. money, whatever), you can follow up with ‘well how does (whatever) make you feel’ and you’ll get a feeling. If a guy doesn’t like a girl for a feeling (ie. wants her for sex), what would be the answer to the second question? ‘She’s good in bed, who cares about the feeling’. This difference along with other social conditioning differences is why I believe so many guys just don’t get it.

Most men have been trained NOT to get it.

To summarise, and to make this article short, NEVER TRY TO LOGIC ANY GIRL. It doesn’t matter if you’re in this game to lay a million girls or to get that one girl that you like. Logic will NEVER work. Make her FEEL right. Create good FEELINGS in her.

Love,
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