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One of the things I often hear when talking to others about attraction and gaming women is that “there is no one way to seduce a girl, because every girl is different”. The thing is, this more often than not comes from someone with very little experience with women. There is some truth to the statement of course, every girl does act slightly differently and throws up a few different challenges. That’s just like driving a car on different roads, of course all roads are going to have different twists and turns, different speed limits and different obstacles jumping out at you, however, the act of driving the car is done nearly exactly the same every single time.

In fact there are a lot of similarities with driving a car and picking up a girl, you start off in the low gears, first gear being the your opening words and initial conversation starter. After a few seconds you throw it into second gear, playing some games, revving up the excitement and having fun together. You bring her into third gear and amp up the sexual tension, this is the gear that takes you from the quick burst of fun into cruising mode. You hit it into fourth and you being just being comfortable around each other, keeping it in fourth to make it around the twists and bends until finally when you hit that straight you gently bump it into 5th and really being to take in the view and the wonders that are women (or driving :)).

Now apparently all girls are different, however as you will discover after doing hundreds of sets, patterns start to emerge and somehow you can see into the future of where the girl is headed with the conversation or how she is feeling at that particular moment, just as if your looking at the road ahead of you and preparing for that next bend. After a while you also begin developing subconscious built in responses to common situations just like changing from first to second gear in a car and swerve to avoid little sticks lying on the road. Remember how when you first began driving and you stalled the car as soon as you tried to take off? Or just pulling out of the parking lot you failed to put it into second and again stalled the car? In those days it took a huge amount of concentration just to get the car to third gear and get going, now however you can drive fine without even thinking about it. This is just like talking to women and interacting in social situations in general. You start to unconsciously react to events without even thinking about them and start being able to handle situations well that most guys would simply walk away from.

Unfortunately most guys seem to be afraid to drive the highways of love, instead choosing to ride their pushbike or even walk, hoping that a random stranger will come give them a lift (an easy lay or girlfriend) which happens every once in a while but really doesn’t get you where you would like to go. Thinking in this way will only get you more frustrated and annoyed then ever before, because your spending as much time in the field as the PUA guys, and your getting little to no results from it.

Taking this new realization that all women are the same under your wing is one of the first steps to realizing that the game isn’t as difficult as many make it out to be. It’s simply that you just don’t have it right yet, the great thing is, once you learn what to do and when to do it it’s all downhill from there. Learning new things as well as dealing with new and unique women takes as little effort as driving on a new road you’ve never been on before.

So why is it that women on the outside appear to be completely different and unique however once you delve deeper they are all quite alike? The primary reason is that women are emotional creatures (well humans as a whole are however women are a lot more emotional than men), they feel the world and feed it back to themselves through their emotions. This is why often when you ask a women to describe why they like a guy they explain that they feel x about him not that they think logical things about him. As with the three brain theory the emotional mind overrules the logical mind especially when attracting a girl and as such girls react in quite similar ways when treated the same way.

This also comes back to backwards rationalization of what they want to do. Because women are emotionally the same but logically different, they will feel the exact same emotions as each other for different things, then backwards rationalize these emotions each to their own unique logical thoughts. This is why on the surface it appears as though all women respond differently and act differently to various things because they logically look like they are, but they are all feeling the same emotions deep inside.

Now that you’ve come to realize that the more effort you put in, the more you will be able to attract women no matter who they are, get out there and practice and above all, just have fun with it. Learn to drive that car and keep learning, observing and improving on your past approaches, continually shifting gears and getting results. Just get out there and have fun.

Have Fun,

– Solace

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